I dont realy understand what you mean by tabbed controls. If you mean keyboard navigation, that is directly ahead on the roadmap.
Take a look at the macros the iced::widget module provides. This is pretty much a declarative ui definition.
In the last version update a new styling system was introduced. It is way simpler then the old approach. I am sure you can create a custom theme that looks pretty much like win10/11.
As far as I skimmed the text they used bevy for their prototype not for the release or at least not as a whole.