Yes and no.

let’s say I have a website that hosts user generated content like a forum or something. Some other person just hosts a mirror of my website that is not under my control. If some user requests me to delete his data, I can do that. i cannot delete the data from the mirror site.

Nothing else is happening in the fediverse. The only difference is, that in the fediverse the license and technology is set up to encourage mirroring content.

Ieft leaning? These orgs sound more like the typical liberal right centrist orgs from america lol

This type of attack theoretically also works with signal or telegram or whatever message service that works entirely without a phone number.